Be Thankful
Author: Brian Shane // Category: brian gorrell, discrimination, HIV, HIV prevention, HIV Stigma, homophobiaMathew's Victory
Author: Brian Shane // Category: barack obama, discrimination, homophobia, James Byrd Jr., matthew shepard,the late Mathew Shepard(RIP) and the incredible moment in Washington when President Barack Obama signed the new anti hate crime legislation
-President Obama signed major civil rights legislation on Wednesday, making it a federal hate crime to assault people based on sexual orientation, gender and gender identity. The new measure expands the the scope of a 1968 law that applies to people attacked because of their race, religion or national origin. The U.S. Justice Department will have expanded authority to prosecute such crimes when local authorities don't.
The provision, called the Matthew Shepard & James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act. It is named after Matthew Shepard, a gay college student tortured and killed in 1998, and James Byrd Jr., a black man who was chained to a pickup truck and dragged to his death the same year.
Huffingtonpost(click) and Unfinishedlivesblog.com
Dear Readers,
If you're a gay man you should already know about Mathew Shepard's incredible story.
If you don't know about Mathew.... then please read about the epic struggle his most loving parents waged to get this ground breaking anti hate legislation through the American political system. Any person who has been murdered for being a homosexual makes me want to cry a million tears. Gay men all over the world are tortured and killed just for being gay. This legislation is just the first step to lifting Mathews honor, beauty and legacy closer to the clouds where he resides now. I love you Mathew like millions of people love you all over the world. When you died, I cried. Your parents are angels who continue to protect your spirit here on earth. I would take ten years off my life if only to give them to you Mathew. I want to cry just thinking about the way you were murdered. We love you Mathew. You're a hero to us. And your parents Judy and Dennis are the parents of the decade if you ask me.

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No Excuses Now.....
Author: Brian Shane // Category: America Gay, barack obama, discrimination, gays in the military, homophobia
In an interview with the Army Times published Sunday, Secretary of the Army John McHugh indicated that the army would be ready to lift the ban on gays serving openly if both Congress and President Obama decided to repeal "don't ask, don't tell." -huffpost
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/27/secretary-of-the-army-say_n_335335.html
(click link for full article)
(Oops!) I stand corrected. I'm obviously wrong because I was totally convinced that Mr. Mar was playing on "my"' ball team. Oh well, we can't have them all I suppose. Korina snagged her man, so congratulations boys and good luck with your many years of wedded bliss! It's a good thing you're both a bit "older" now.
No kids.
ps-OMG sorry Korina, your breasts look SO ENORMOUSLY HUGE and PERFECT in this publicity picture!!!!!! Like I mean.. B I G!
pps- Noynoy, since your dear mom passed away, you have shown a tremendous spirit for life and I thought your speech was amazing. You have the potential workings of a great leader I reckon and the few people who say you've done nothing are messed up or delusional. From where I sit, no other presidential candidate has that 'light' around them like you do, no matter how many houses or land plots others may "give away".
(Noynoy honey, you are still very single and tres uber eligible from what I hear..... and some might even (myself included) find you attractive. If I was single and we both lived in an alternative 'far out there, you know what I mean' dimension, I would totally go for you because well, er, I think most Filipino guys are pretty hot. Now Noynoy dear, I'm not for one minute suggesting that you are a "gay" but we hope you are)
Wow, it's never dull around here.....
No kids.
With the lovely charismatic Noynoy (tis apparent, I'm a big fan) in charge soon, one can imagine what's going through gorgeous Korina's very well groomed head of silky luxurious hair. Her very new, fairly attractive husband Mar will be Vice President of the Philippines soon! Wow (gives me tiny chills), Korina Sanchez and Tita Kristy will be like, nearly related.
(((Imagine if Willie had run as well...the poor country would implode/explode from a severe case of conflict of interest diareah)))
(((Imagine if Willie had run as well...the poor country would implode/explode from a severe case of conflict of interest diareah)))
ps-OMG sorry Korina, your breasts look SO ENORMOUSLY HUGE and PERFECT in this publicity picture!!!!!! Like I mean.. B I G!
pps- Noynoy, since your dear mom passed away, you have shown a tremendous spirit for life and I thought your speech was amazing. You have the potential workings of a great leader I reckon and the few people who say you've done nothing are messed up or delusional. From where I sit, no other presidential candidate has that 'light' around them like you do, no matter how many houses or land plots others may "give away".
(Noynoy honey, you are still very single and tres uber eligible from what I hear..... and some might even (myself included) find you attractive. If I was single and we both lived in an alternative 'far out there, you know what I mean' dimension, I would totally go for you because well, er, I think most Filipino guys are pretty hot. Now Noynoy dear, I'm not for one minute suggesting that you are a "gay" but we hope you are)
Wow, it's never dull around here.....

Denied- Jethro Cuenca Patalinghug is distressed
Let's call it "Sour Graping" just to mock the very idea... - by Jethro Cuenca Patalinghug
I just talked to the organizers and they told me they reviewed the results and it was really like that... and so I said okay I guess I have to accept it. Then they started offering that they will actually do some projects with me, produce me or something so I don't have to worry. Out of curiosity I asked how the scoring went, they said I was 4th and was 1.3 behind getting a place, and so I ask how did I get a .3 when the scaling was 1-5, 1 being the most preferred and and 5 the least preferred.
The other organizer said the scoring from the pre-pageant contributed, but from what I understood it was back to zero during the top 8 so I questioned it, she said that it did contribute to the final score, I insisted I thought it was clearly explained to us that it was back to zero, then she said there are scores from the pre-pageant that contributed, so I asked "like what?", and she couldn't answer so she referred to the score they had in hand, and now my score suddenly turned into the 3.3 figure, the other organizer tried to help explain and said they could only intervene if there was a tie, I said we were not talking about a tie, no tie happened, we were talking about the final five ranking, and then he tried to explain they were only basing it on paper. I said I'm sorry sir but I'm afraid I didn't get a clear explanation from you...the conversation ended shortly as I thanked them for the good experience that I had.
As much as I wanted to help them sort out the truth, it did not come out...I'm sorry, I was ready to settle things out and even submit myself to whatever decisions they had, grant that I knew the truth. I perfectly understand their priorities, there are future projects at stake, thus I was willing to help and forget about getting what was rightfully mine. But much to my disappointment, I did not get an honest and clear explanation...
I have always been a fighter of the truth, its in my blood, my mom instilled it in me. Sorry I will not let this pass... Hopefully the video of the pageant will speak for itself...
It doesn't end here, I am still very thankful because I had a wonderful experience, I think that despite what happened I was still able to achieve my goal - to spread the message of diversity in the Philippines. I think I have contributed, in my own little way, to counter the negative judgment put upon gay people in this unique society which practically works on class system, "capitalism" and sometimes homophobia.
To Mr. Gay World Philippines... I truly wish you the best
P.S.
Thank you Boy Abunda for reassuring me during our private talk and telling me I had the better hand in the competition. Thank you Melo for being one of the judges and for telling me I was number one in your tally. Thank you Raymond Lee for being one of the judges and telling me the same thing. Thank you Joel Cruz for also being one of judges and choosing me to get your special award. Most importantly Thank you Direk Ronald Carballo for that hug which comforted me, thank you for standing up for me even for that slight moment and telling me there might have been a technical error and that the ranking might have been turned upside down. Thank you to the rest of the judges who also thought I deserved the title...thank you
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What went wrong?
I just talked to the organizers and they told me they reviewed the results and it was really like that... and so I said okay I guess I have to accept it. Then they started offering that they will actually do some projects with me, produce me or something so I don't have to worry. Out of curiosity I asked how the scoring went, they said I was 4th and was 1.3 behind getting a place, and so I ask how did I get a .3 when the scaling was 1-5, 1 being the most preferred and and 5 the least preferred.
The other organizer said the scoring from the pre-pageant contributed, but from what I understood it was back to zero during the top 8 so I questioned it, she said that it did contribute to the final score, I insisted I thought it was clearly explained to us that it was back to zero, then she said there are scores from the pre-pageant that contributed, so I asked "like what?", and she couldn't answer so she referred to the score they had in hand, and now my score suddenly turned into the 3.3 figure, the other organizer tried to help explain and said they could only intervene if there was a tie, I said we were not talking about a tie, no tie happened, we were talking about the final five ranking, and then he tried to explain they were only basing it on paper. I said I'm sorry sir but I'm afraid I didn't get a clear explanation from you...the conversation ended shortly as I thanked them for the good experience that I had.
As much as I wanted to help them sort out the truth, it did not come out...I'm sorry, I was ready to settle things out and even submit myself to whatever decisions they had, grant that I knew the truth. I perfectly understand their priorities, there are future projects at stake, thus I was willing to help and forget about getting what was rightfully mine. But much to my disappointment, I did not get an honest and clear explanation...
I have always been a fighter of the truth, its in my blood, my mom instilled it in me. Sorry I will not let this pass... Hopefully the video of the pageant will speak for itself...
It doesn't end here, I am still very thankful because I had a wonderful experience, I think that despite what happened I was still able to achieve my goal - to spread the message of diversity in the Philippines. I think I have contributed, in my own little way, to counter the negative judgment put upon gay people in this unique society which practically works on class system, "capitalism" and sometimes homophobia.
To Mr. Gay World Philippines... I truly wish you the best
P.S.
Thank you Boy Abunda for reassuring me during our private talk and telling me I had the better hand in the competition. Thank you Melo for being one of the judges and for telling me I was number one in your tally. Thank you Raymond Lee for being one of the judges and telling me the same thing. Thank you Joel Cruz for also being one of judges and choosing me to get your special award. Most importantly Thank you Direk Ronald Carballo for that hug which comforted me, thank you for standing up for me even for that slight moment and telling me there might have been a technical error and that the ranking might have been turned upside down. Thank you to the rest of the judges who also thought I deserved the title...thank you
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What went wrong?
Mini Me
Author: Brian Shane // Category:Hey, this still works for me sometimes.....
(note the cool dog in this clip.. ps I LOVE DOGS)
Scientists identified a type of chimpanzee in West Africa as the source of HIV infection in humans. The virus most likely jumped to humans when humans hunted these chimpanzees for meat and came into contact with their infected blood. Over several years, the virus slowly spread across Africa and later into other parts of the world.
If both you and your partner have HIV, use condoms to prevent other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and possible infection with a different strain of HIV.



















